Rebecca

027 – “Sam” and Rebecca, Brightest moments, Thanksgiving Holiday edition

Photo by Lolame Things3 link: https://culturedcode.com/things/ —— Would you like to help us make this podcast even better? Tell us what really helped you, what hit home, what surprised you, what motivated you to do something different in your own life… There are two easy ways to contribute! 1) Either fill out this form or…

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026 – Rebecca, Reba and Miles recap their year’s through their 5 Brightest Moments of 2019

Miles, Reba, and Rebecca play round-robin sharing their five brightest moments of their year’s.  Miles’ Latest project: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thevibeproject/ Also, January 12th, 9am PST/noon EST – Saturn and Pluto will be conjunct in the sign of Capricorn Good time to imagine some good imagining of 2020!  —— Would you like to help us make this podcast…

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025 – Peek Into An Intimate Moment After a Full Moon Ritual

Photo by StockSnap Together in the sound booth the morning after a Full Moon ritual, “Sam” and I talk about our feelings for each other after the ritual, “Fuck Yeah” right now moments, and how once you’ve tasted that goodness, you don’t want to go back. ____________________ Would you like to help us make this…

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“Release of all hope for a better past”

@ 18:48 – Buddy Wakefield, Hurling Crowbirds at Mocking Bars  (https://youtu.be/I9wUoVhdN0A @ min 2:12) How to be Vibrationally Clean in relationships… Looking for things that trigger you… Due Justice Letter, one way to “clean out an open wound” – favorite technique shared with me by Odille and Steve Remmert https://www.theremmertmethod.com/ 30:00 – reference Alison Armstrong…

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Knee Deep in Shift

The dissolution of the triad, baseline expectations, not knowing you are broken up with, getting dumped twice in one day, Standards of Conduct, trusting others to mean what they say and say what they mean. “I suspect this type of episode would be a little uncomfortable and emotional to record. For me, the realness and…

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Random Side Note (Facing Expectations and Some Poetry)

Expectations, Self-actualization (7:30), tumescence, 30-second wave (3:50), Buddy Wakefield (3:02 – “What if one brain in the heart of this place rose up to the actual size of the actual voice it contained …”) 4:15 – reference the 90/10 game episode – Link to 90/10 Episode of PCR  (“I hear sex is on the table!”…

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Hospital Learnings

Rebecca ends up in the hospital for 5 days and shares her learnings from the experience.  “This one really touched me, and I’m really glad you’re ok! I was captivated while listening to your experience and reflections, as well as Shawn mentioning his own numbing several months back. I couldn’t help but think back to…

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020 – Joy Bank, with Rebecca & Shawn

Going through Rebecca’s Joy Bank, explaining the concept, reading a few of her 5 bright moments. Rebecca explains how she uses her Joy Bank and how it helps her to fight depression. ____________________ Would you like to help us make this podcast even better? Tell us what really helped you, what hit home, what surprised…

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Full Moon Rituals for Relationship Harmony

Discussing one of Rebecca’s most relied-upon tool for a great relationship. Photo by philpace 2:56 – Shout out to Wendy Newman and Alison Armstrong Alison Armstrong https://www.understandmen.com/ Wendy Newman https://wendyspeaks.com/ Get Wendy’s Full Moon Ritual Questions here: https://wendyspeaks.com/products-for-couples/stay-in-love-full-moon-ritual/ 17:25 – Shout out to Kellie LaRue! Would you like to help us make this podcast even…

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Introducing “Sam”, Rebecca’s partner, and talking about smart strategies for long distance relationships

“Sam’s” first episode Photo by Oleg Magni

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The Downside of “Saving Your Partners from Pain”

Rebecca and Shawn discuss how bad of an idea that is in the long term and why.

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“The Box” – a BDSM experiment

Nate & Rebecca discuss their (failed) experiment with a new kink with Shawn, and the lessons they learned from it 34 min Photo credit – Photo by Gratisography

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The Gift of an Authentic Orgasm, with Shawn, Karen & Rebecca

Shawn, Karen and Rebecca talk about Karen’s sex life, her Monogamish lifestyle and the power of authenticity for great sex. SHOWNOTES at 6:59, Shawn references the episodes we did on the Triad.  (To hear the episodes with the Triad that precede this one, here are the links, in order) #1 – Rebecca’s Love Letter http://pleasurecentralpodcast.com/the-first-love-letter…

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What’s a “Triple Quickie?”

3-month Check-in for the triad  (To hear the episodes with the Triad that precede this one, here are the links, in order) #1 – Rebecca’s Love Letter http://pleasurecentralpodcast.com/the-first-love-letter #2 – Nate’s Love Letter http://pleasurecentralpodcast.com/nates-love-letter #3 – Charity’s Perspective – Lean Into the Skid http://pleasurecentralpodcast.com/lean-into-the-skid  

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Sex talk and blowjob tips

SHOWNOTES: Shawn Introducing Sherry 1:50 Sherry first mentions Quodoushka workshop  Quodoushka Workshop website: https://www.quodoushka.org/ 2:55 – mention Sacred sexuality and Intimate communication 3:17 Sherry starts telling her sexual self and her background and who she is as a woman in sex. Talks about being in the army as a feminine being. 4:38 – her deployment…

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Fedora Guy Was Here

Rebecca reads Fedora Guy Was Here… and Shawn talks to her about it 26 min

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The 3D Jigsaw Puzzle Solution

Rebecca’s solution to the Jigsaw Puzzle conundrum posed by Daniel Sloss’ show on Netflix, Jigsaw 18 min

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Lean into the Skid

Charity and Shawn talk about the triad, how the shifting of Nate & Charity’s relationship challenged and changed her and how she has dealt with the shifts.   

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Nate’s love letter

This one is Nate reading part of his love letter (the one he wrote in response to Rebecca’s love letter) and talking with Shawn about it. 

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Hot for Negotiation

Rebecca and Shawn discuss negotiating for amazing (and hot) partnerships, and the keys to good negotiation were everyone wins.

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The First Love Letter

“This one is about a love letter I wrote to Charity. Shawn and I discuss the letter after and what our triad is like.” – Radiant Rebecca

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True Love Requires True Sight

It’s about acroyoga and what acro teaches us about partnership, relationships, communication and the balance between the divine masculine and the divine feminine in each of us.

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Loving Widely, and Your Brain on Love

Useful for all types of relationships. We talk quite a lot about Polyamory and new relationship paradigms in this episode. -changing a relationship doesn’t mean it has failed! -“The judging of something…” : – aren’t something I have to do, but it’s usually something I enjoy having done“ -“powering up” our life! -“Sometimes the best…

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Having Quality Conversations & Connections

Nneka Kelly and Radiant Rebecca go way, way back. In fact, Nneka is one of R’s oldest Abe friends. Here it is, 13+ years after they first connected online and they have some great stories about how to find your awesome peeps. 3:02 – Nneka’s introduction is done and she starts speaking    4:04 –…

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The “How do YOU do Poly, Rebecca?” conversation

Exploring the polyamory/open relationship lifestyle. Talking to your lovers about sex, fantasies, safety… What happens when a new crush arrives on the scene? -ask your lovers “what is so sexy about that?” -mentioned safety and condoms, etc. educate yourself, decide ahead of time and no safety rules are changed if there is a hard cock…

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