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118 – Live a Life of Ease, Balance and Engagement in What Matters Most with Jamien Rose

RATED PG-13 In episode 118, Rebecca speaks to Jamien about finding ways to calm our nervous system, finding bodily ease and balance, to help us fully live in the present moment. In particular, they explore how learning to connect with your body (physically, spiritually and emotionally) can be a very transformative healing experience. Jamien helps…

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113 – Celebrate Letting Go, Discover True Pleasure and New Possibilities in your Life – Kundalini Awakenings with Scott Bryant-Comstock

In episode 113, Rebecca talks to poet and podcaster, Scott Bryant-Comstock, about the impact of his Kundalini awakening on his life. They delve into the topic, exploring how Scott’s awakening happened and the potential consequences it may hold for you in your creative, spiritual and sexual life. Scott’s awakening happened after he sought out a…

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112 – Honor and Integrity in Open Relationships – A Male’s Perspective on Polyamory with Bruce

RATED PG-13 In episode 112,  Rebecca talks to Bruce about what it is like being polyamorous from a male’s perspective. Bruce shares his experience of dating and interacting with metamours, including opening up about his fears when it comes to being in multiple relationships and how to deal with the issues that inevitably come up. …

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111 – Establish Intimacy and Honesty in a Relationship with Sherry and Brian

RATED R In episode 111, Rebecca talks to Sherry and Brian about establishing intimacy with your partner and being completely honest about your needs and desires. Influenced by her time in the army, Sherry’s strong sense of masculinity in her sex life led her to a Quodoushka workshop in 2019 where she wanted to explore…

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110 – Make your Relationship Work – Creating Co-Empowerment in Relationship Exploration with Jodi Baygood

RATED PG-13 In episode 110, Rebecca discusses relationship agreements with Jodi Baygood. They explore how to create co-empowerment in a new relationship in order to maintain a healthy connection to your partner, while having your space and individuality respected.  Find out why communication is essential for establishing a strong foundation for your relationship, how this…

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110 – Make your Relationship Work – Creating Co-Empowerment in Relationship Exploration with Jodi Baygood

RATED PG-13 In episode 110, Rebecca discusses relationship agreements with Jodi Baygood. They explore how to create co-empowerment in a new relationship in order to maintain a healthy connection to your partner, while having your space and individuality respected.  Find out why communication is essential for establishing a strong foundation for your relationship, how this…

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108 – Stories and Advice from an Escort – Reposted from Karen Disapproves Podcast

RATED R: Language Rebecca recently had the privilege to be on another really cool podcast, Karen Disapproves hosted by Chelsea Kunz.  Chelsea wanted to invite Rebecca onto the show because of her appearance on the podcast It Goes Both Ways. Curious about how Rebecca’s career as a sex worker started, Chelsea quizzes her on all…

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107 – Lessons from an Orgy: How Others Navigate Complicated Sex, Relationships and Polyamory

RATED X: Sexual content This is a set of five short, impromtu interviews with a variety of polyamorous and sex positive people that will make you rethink your assumptions about sexuality. Rebecca interviews five new friends at an orgy about some of their most intimate choices and how they have approached satisfaction, partnership and important…

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106 – The Healthier you are the Better Sex you Have

RATED R: Sexual content  What do chiropractics and sexual performance have to do with each other?  Rebecca and one of her occasional lovers, who also happens to be a chiropractor, talk frankly and personally about their own journeys with physical and sexual health, and share many of the best strategies they know for recovering and…

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104 – Navigating Polyamory and Friendship: How do we care for each other through relationship transitions?

RATED PG13: Mild Language This is a very compassion-generating episode. It’s an exploration of a long relationship I’ve had with an amazing guy.  This is his first time on the show, but he’s been a dear friend of mine for over 8.5 years. We’ve dated twice, broken up three times, spent hospital moments and Thanksgivings…

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103 – How you Love is Enough Part 2

RATED R: Language & Sex How did Rebecca meet Josh? Following Part 1, an intimate moment between Rebecca and her new partner Josh, Shawn joins the conversation. Going into the details of how their relationship developed, they explore the concept of how you love is enough. What you have to offer in a relationship is…

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102 – How you Love is Enough Part 1

RATED R: Language & Sex Rebecca introduces her new partner, Josh. In this intimate conversation, they share details about their relationship and how they navigate polyamory, freedom and the need for a nesting partnership. They want to illustrate the concept of ‘how you love someone is enough’. This implies that you should not try to…

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101 – Val D’Alessio, a song on Forgiveness

Val D’Alessio sings about forgiveness and self-acceptance in response to the episode on forgiveness with Elle (episode 099 – How to move on after a Breakup? Forgiving your Ex)

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100 – How to get what you truly need in a relationship with Wendy Newman

RATED R: Language, Sex Rebecca talks with Wendy, a sex, dating and relationship expert, about our partner’s ‘have to haves’. In other words, what do you truly need in a relationship? On the other hand, what do you need to avoid? Using Wendy’s Partner Have-to-Haves worksheet as a basis, Rebecca and Wendy discuss what they…

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028 – The Shower-Masturbation Tease, Long Distance Relationships, and Technology Management Within Relationships

Photo by bruce mars 2:00 positive attention seeking through masturbating in the shower 4:27 the kind of noise you want to run towards! 5:26 possessive texting, neediness 11:06 “Sam” and no texting late at night… 12:54 Sudden increase in texts may mean a sudden shift in their emotional state 16:45 Rebecca and Will’s ’permanent’ relationship…

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The Downside of “Saving Your Partners from Pain”

Rebecca and Shawn discuss how bad of an idea that is in the long term and why.

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The 3D Jigsaw Puzzle Solution

Rebecca’s solution to the Jigsaw Puzzle conundrum posed by Daniel Sloss’ show on Netflix, Jigsaw 18 min

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Hot for Negotiation

Rebecca and Shawn discuss negotiating for amazing (and hot) partnerships, and the keys to good negotiation were everyone wins.

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